Friday, May 4, 2012

living your life




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From: "Mark's Motivation Mail" <motivation@chattertonworld.com>
Date: Fri, 4 May 2012 05:38:01 +0800
To: <Undisclosed-Recipient>
Subject: living your life

 

Who is living your life for you ?

 

Why, no one. I live my own life.

 

What causes you to live the kind of life you live; what makes you do what you do ?

 

My attitudes and viewpoints and convictions. Obviously, the way we think determines the way we act.

 

And where did you get these attitudes ? How come you think the way you do ? Where did you get your viewpoints towards sex, politics, religion, people, and everything else ?

 

Oh, I picked them up from other people in my early years.

 

Then they are not part of your original self; they are merely acquired?

 

Yes, that must be so.

 

Then you are living according to the attitudes and viewpoints of other people who passed them on to you ?

 

Well, yes.

 

Then you are not really living your life ?

 

I see what you mean. I am repeating what others told me. I a sense, I am living their life.

 

What if many of these acquired attitudes are wrong, unrealistic, damaging ? For instance, suppose you believe that it's impossible to switch from anxiety to happiness ?

 

Then I pay the price for that false belief.

 

Do you like paying the price ?

 

Not at all.

 

Must you continue to suffer from false viewpoints ?

 

No.

 

Why not ?

 

Because I can drop them. Since they are merely acquired, like uncomfortable clothing, I can shed them like clothing.

 

Then ?

 

Then, for the first time, I'll live my own life.

 

You like that idea ?

 

I'm ready!

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